Why My Friend Won’t Talk To Me After She Got Out Of Rehabilitation?
February 8, 2010 by admin
Filed under Alcohol Rehabilitation
she used to be very addicted to drugs and alcohol but she used to be my very friend and she told me i was the nicest person she’d ever met. but now that she’s sober she won’t even call me no more. I do understand that she learned not to be with people with bad habits, but i really had promised her that i wouldn’t do drugs with her. but she still wont talk to me.
i wonder why….
Because she will be tempted to use again if you are still using and she doesnt want to go back down that road again! its something they learn in rehab
You said you wouldn’t do drugs WITH her, but do you Do drugs? She’s trying to rebuild her life by staying clean and sober and the ONLY way she can do that is to avoid being around those who use and surround herself with those who are in the fight as much as she is! This may seem harsh, but if you care about her, please let her do what she truly needs to do to regain and rebuild her life. God Bless, and if you are an addict I pray you reach out as well:)
she won’t talk to you because,maybe she doesn’t believe you won’t do drugs around her, and when you get out of rehab you’re not supposed to be around people who do drugs or alchohol,I have a friend who wass addicted to coke in the 90’s and to this day she cannot surround herself around that type of addictive behavior,so until she feels you won’t do drugs around her,she will never talk to you,because she’s trying to get her life together, so prove to her you aren’t doing any drugs and she will talk to you again
It is part of what they taught her in treatment. So the good news is that she is working her program. I can understand that you are hurt, but if you really care for her, which it sounds like you do, you should respect her decision at this time.
you just answered you own ? if she has recovered and you still or rather did drugs with her she has to cut you loose ..unless you were willing to get rehab as well..she must cut old ties and start anew ,,maybe when shes’s more secure with her self she may be able to talk to you again so just be a friend and stay away